"Behold the ladyblogosphere, for these are not women’s blogs but ladyblogs, and “lady” is their endemic verbal tic. Here genitals are ladyparts or lady business (or worse, ladyflowers); here there are single ladies, of course, but also fancy ladies and lady squatters, lady politicians as well as lady doctors and lady writers. “Lady Eats 183 Chicken Wings,” says one Jezebel headline. Here’s another: “For the Lady Who Has Everything, How About Some Blinged-Out Pepper Spray?” The Hairpin has “Ask a Lady” and also a “League of Ordinary Ladies” comic, about going to the movies and eating cookies and taking up needlepoint. “Jane Austen published Sense and Sensibility as ‘A Lady,’” reads one post on The Hairpin, “because she predicted this website.” Lady: a child’s categorical noun for non-mother adults."

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n 1: So Many Feelings

All you ladies out there in internet land need to read this dead-on-very-astute article by the smart and delightful Molly Fischer.

I found it incredibly easy to relate to- I spent countless hours of my highschool years (also college, also, last summer) reading Cosmo, Glamour, Marie Claire, Jane on the beach.  Originally we were somewhat serious, then skeptical, and now, I’ve developed it into a performance piece to read any and all of the articles out loud to an audience.  It’s a popular party trick with girls and gays, I’ve never tried it with guys.

Molly traces this type of shift in opinions towards “Lady Magazines” to “Ladyblogs” and cleverly analyzes the negative and positive aspects of the changes in the young woman world.

Also, with regards to the word “lady”… I agree that it’s a funny choice for us to call ourselves that… but I don’t have a better solution.  I’m a 27 year old with a full time job, rent, and cancer scars living alone in New York City.  It would be demeaning to call me a “girl”.  But I don’t feel like I’ve grown into (or comfortable) with being called a “woman”.